I do understand you point,
Maybe you do not understand that this is video script, not a typical social script.
Video script is focused first on videos, eventually on photos and games, not on users.
And don't forget that you are not facebook. You can't have all security mechanisms as facebook has in such public script.
Also what is allowed for facebook, not necessary is good for you, may rather hurt website a lot than bring any good.
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